If I keep seeing something does that mean it is a sign?

I broke up with my boyfriend about six month's ago and I do not want him back. He still calls me every now and then but usually not from his cell so I answer thinking that it is someone else. I answer calls from numbers that I do not recognize because I'm a college graduate looking for employment so I answer thinking that it may be a potential employer. When he calls its just to see how I'm doing, but soon after we talk wherever I go somewhere I'm reminded of him. Eg. when driving I pass Ruth's Chris, or see someone named Christopher, which is his name. Is there any psychological, spiritual explanation for this? I know it's not in my head because my friends notice this as well.If I keep seeing something does that mean it is a sign?
No ....... don`t be silly ....... there`s nothing psychological or spiritual about it. You can never absolutely forget someone that you were once intimate with. It`s a natural thing. I`m still reminded of a girlfriend that I had about ten years ago. Her name is Grace, and her face flashes before me every time someone mentions the word "grace" at the dinner table. It goes as quick as it comes, so it doesn`t bother me. It`s a little annoying at first, but ....... don`t get your bra in a knot over it !!!If I keep seeing something does that mean it is a sign?
do you believe in faith. he's probably right for you. may the force be with you. or maybe god wants u to be with him.If I keep seeing something does that mean it is a sign?
Actually this is absolutely common. it is called "immersion, seperation anxiety". You see, every chapter of our life is lived in some form of immersion, and as one chapter fades into another, the memories from our past immersion, comes about naturally, even as they did, when we were immersed. This is actually the same memories, and the abnsence of immersion, gives the memories no place to exist in the future, present or past.



There is no escape, except time, for this is an absolutely natural phenomenon. For instance, i talk about "CHICO" all the time, when in fact he is a figment of my imaggination, an alternate personality ,which i created. Even though this is normal, and has a place in the future , present, and past, it is still, the same "immersion memories recall". I will never get over mine, because i built it to do what it does. However yoiu would only have this option if you were still together.



Be glad he cares enough to check on you, let him phase out himself, and the memories will go with him slowly. Or you may simply grow as friends forever.If I keep seeing something does that mean it is a sign?
A wise person once told me there is someone for everyone, the hard part is finding them or knowing its them when we do. Do you believe in signs? If the people around you are noticing maybe someone is trying to tell you something. It may be worth your time to try again. Good luck.
Breaking up with someone is generally a strenuous time for most people, seeing hearing even smelling things which remind you of them is quite common.



There is no easy way to be rid of the sensation but as with all things time is supposed to heal.

LOL thats what i said 6 years ago and my Ex still calls me, major mindfrag. best way to get him to stop is point blank Refusal and possible Barr or restraining orders.



Thinking about someone whom you were close with fades with time but like i said stimuli triggers memories but that will change eventually when someone else catches your eye.