Why does he continue to treat me as more than a friend even know he said were just friends?

He's took me out numerous times to dinners and lunches. One of them included ruths Chris steakhouse. He kissed me passionately on the lips and held my hand while we were walking in the park. He says he's just being nice and that he doesn't have feelings for me. And then he says he hates kissing because it's so middle school. Hr said I'm not his type. And I don't have feelings for him. But when his friend said I was cute and start talking to me he got furious and said he was gonna talk to my homegirls.Why does he continue to treat me as more than a friend even know he said were just friends?
The key here is that he pays for your meals! That means he likes you regardless of what he says! And yes, he might be playing some kind of a game, but still, he is NOT using you. Because again, he pays for your meals, and all he wants is conversation from you. That means he likes you and is afraid to admit it.



He figures if he doesn't tell you he likes you, he won't get hurt. He must have gotten burned in the past. So my advice: Take him up on the free meals, IF you like him back. But if you don't, and you feel as if you are leading him on, you need to have a conversation with him. Says something like this, "I know you have said we are only friends, and I hope you mean it, because that is how I feel about you."



Now if you think you might start liking him as a boyfriend instead of just a pal, continue going out with him and see where it goes!Why does he continue to treat me as more than a friend even know he said were just friends?
It's one of two things.

1.. He is a controlling freak. It may seem like he likes to have control over you. He wants to be free to flirt with people but he doesn't want you to be.

2.. He doesn't know how to express how he's feeling because he's a dumb guy.



Just sit him down and ask him about it.
I think that he wants to be friends with you, but his feelings go deeper than that. Try to talk to him about this. Explain that you need to know where you stand and if he is just trying to control you, yu do not need that. Good luck.Why does he continue to treat me as more than a friend even know he said were just friends?
Sounds like a possessive control freak whose ultimate goal is to have the steak without buying the cow. Get away from this azz as fast as possible.
Truth is he does have feeling for you and he just doesn't want to admitted :)



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Strange boy. Sounds like he's a bit on the controlling side doesn't it. He doesn't like kissing but kisses you passionately. Doesn't have feelings for you but takes you out and about and buys you food. Gets upset when someone else makes a pass at you and then takes it out on you by sniffing round your homegirls. I think he's a manipulator. He wants everything his own way and shows off when people behave the way they want to instead. At the moment it sounds like you have the upper hand in this relationship. He is attempting to get you to knuckle under - so don't. If he wants to talk to your homegirls (what are homegirls?) - say 'Fine' and walk away. When he wants to take you out and feed you ask him why. If he doesn't have feelings for you why is he bothering with you? When he wants to kiss you, remind him how middle school that is and how much you aren't his type. Play him at his own game. If he wants a relationship with you then it has to be an equal one - not one where he plays mind games. If he then decides that you are too much hard work, let him go and bully another girl instead. You will have had a lucky escape if he won't change his ways.